Ramadan During The Lockdown

We all know that this Ramadan will be different from the previous Ramadans, as some of us are in lockdown and some of us are working in the frontline. This year, there are not going to be big Iftar gatherings and  Taraweeh prayers in mosques. It might be very strange for those who usually spend this blessed month in mosques and surrounded by many people. Many of us will spend Ramadan at home, alone or with our families, others will be working in hospitals, supermarkets, house cares and in every place where they are needed. We are all going to live Ramadan differently this year. Some of us might be sad, thinking that many opportunities of performing ibadah will be missed as we will either be at home or working outside; however let be positive and see our situation as a blessing. 

A blessing, why then you might think?

Well, we are always busy spending most of our days living and thinking in speed, that we forget to stop and ponder over ourselves, particularly over our imaan, deeds, our relationship with Allah and over our spiritual journey. Therefore experiencing Ramadan at home this year is going to be a blessing: although some of us will be working from home, we will not be running to go for work, and we can use the time we have to reflect and understand better our imaan and our relationship with Allah (i.e Are we following the right path? Have we sincerely repented and asked for forgiveness to Allah? Are our deeds sincere? Are we doing enough? If we would die, are we ready to meet Allah?). 

We can use the situation we are in our favor and try to become better Muslims.We should not despair and we should use the opportunity given by Allah to strengthen our knowledge in deen and imaan and inshAllah we will all get out of it better and stronger. Remember that Allah is everywhere and He is always with us.

The key workers should not despair as well if they think that they will have less time for ibadah. They are doing an important job, helping people and taking care of them and inshAllah they will be rewarded for that.

To conclude we should keep positive, optimistic, have faith and remember that “Verily, with every difficulty there is relief” [94:6] and that the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “If the Resurrection were established upon one of you while he has in his hand a sapling, then let him plant it.”

Written by Zaineb Tassa

Make This Ramadan Unique

Living the most of Ramadan days at home seems to be a little bit worrying for most of us who love going to the mosque, praying together, and enjoying together iftars. That seems so amazing and so much love around. But still, everything happens for a reason and we can transform different circumstances in good ones, with just a little bit of effort. Having a home Ramadan can be turned into something unique and very beneficial. Avoiding daily distractions and once in a lifetime we’re havin a great chance to stay totally Rmadan focused. Here’s what you can do and benefit from:

  • Organise your time

You don’t have to worry any more about missing the bus or the taxi when going to work or in a meeting. We might even think that we have so much time that we don’t even know what to do.Well, that is not always right. Time is money, and Ramadan is a lifetime experience. We never know if we can reach it again, so organise your time to get the best from it. Set some goals, what do you want to work more with and build some nice habits. You can now work and always pray at time, and Allah loves praying at time for us. You can also set some time to always read the Quran and pray dhikr daily in the morning and in the evening. Time management is one of the greatest things you can deal with and the worthiest, because if you can master time, you can master everything. Especially during Ramadan. Don’t let unnecessary distractions steal your Ramadan, but set some goals for yourself and family and work together to reach them.

  • Set Qur’an goals

The Qur’an often is the book we neglect. Give your best reading it all, not just once, maybe even more and try daily to memorise some ayah. The benefits of reading the Quran daily and sticking with it, are endless. And those who stick with it will have a great reward in the hereafter for them and their parents will be honoured too. If you’re not able to translate it from arabic, also you  can set some time for reading it in your language to meditate and reflect on its meaning. Ramadan is the month when the Qur’an was revealed, so this is the main thing you should stick with mostly.

  • Think in long term

Mastering these habits for 30 days can be beneficial in the long term also. You will be more likely to keep it up with the same routine even when Ramadan ends. And all activities that you will be dealing with during this month are beneficial for you in this dunya and the akhirah. So is a win-win situation. Give you best now and keep it up even when Ramadan is gone. Be the best of you always!

  • Take a nap

Fasting can be tiring at some point, especially if you’re truly working hard to stay productive or even if you’re working remotely at the same time for your job. Then take a nap at lunch after prayer. It will help you to recharge your energies and then become more focused, feel better and more available to move on with your to do list.

  • Connect more

You might not be having the lovely iftars with friends and community, but your family is there. Something we often take for granted. Eat together, cook together, pray together and have some more time together. What a great time to worship God and grow together, boostin and inspiring each other. Family is a great thing so connect and give your main focus to them!

  • Change your life

May Eid el Fitr find you a better version of yourself, a more dedicated person to Allah and a better Muslim. Work hard this Ramadan and improve yourself. And don’t ever stop being better and pleasing Allah!

“Together Against Islamophobia – Acting for Human Rights” Participant’s blog

Islamophobia is a social phenomenon that is on the rise in Europe today and it is increasing on a daily basis. According to EU-wide research, 1 in 3 Muslims in Europe have experienced discrimination at least once over the last year. Especially dramatic is in France, where a mosque is attacked or damaged every 3 weeks. A Muslim is attacked every 3 days – 85% of Islamophobic acts are against Muslim women. Similar situation can be recognized in Belgium, Germany, Great Britain, Italy, The Netherlands…
The consequences connected to Islamophobia in Europe affect European Muslim communities, their social integration, but also psychological and socio-economic well-being. For FEMYSO, these issues were reason big enough to organize an international Study Session “Together Against Islamophobia – Acting for Human Rights”.

The Study Session is taking place in the Youth Center of the Council of Europe in Budapest. It has gathered around 40 young people from more than 20 countries in the world and the general aim of the Study Session is to raise awareness on Islamophobia and Anti-Muslim Discrimination as a Human Rights Violation. The participants will make concrete proposals for actions and initiatives to be implemented, to improve knowledge, skills and attitudes in order to contribute towards Human rights advocacy strategies and good practices. Very important to emphasize is the fact that the Study Session will empower young “ambassadors” to take a stand against Islamophobia.
One of them is a young Journalism student and NGO-activist Samir Beharić, representing Bosnia & Herzegovina at the Study Session. Speaking to Amina Šljivo, the editor of Bosnian youth web site “Divithana”, Beharić emphasized that the big importance of the Study Session lies in the fact that this event has gathered young people and experts from the whole Europe: “Usually we are aware of individual, isolated cases of Islamophobia in some European countries. This Study Session will provide us a complete picture of this wide-spread issue, and based on it we will try to come up with some solutions or advices we’ll forward to the Council of Europe.”

Beharić also points out the necessity of post – Study Session collaboration: “Based on the current information that we here, the participants will make concrete proposals for actions and initiatives we’d like implement. Only united, we will be able to improve our knowledge, and tackle Islamophobia, a phenomenon that affects not only Muslims, but general public.”
The participants of the the Study Session had the opportunity to learn from renowned experts from Council of Europe, OSCE and European Network Against Racism.

Amina Šljivo
SOURCE: Divithana.com

European Street Action Day: Allow me – I am Muslim!

About one month ago IGMG (Islamic Community of Milli Görüş) which is a huge faith based NGO working in Europe, Canada and Australia and is located in Kerpen (Germany) organized a Street Action Day in Europe under the title “Gestatten, Muslim|Permettez – Je suis musulman” (Allow me – I am Muslim).

To be exact it was a platform of dialog between Muslim and Non-Muslims Europeans to get to know each other better in days where unfortunately media is often talking about but not with Muslims in an untruth way and in a way spreading rumors. To avoid incorrect information about Islam, young Muslims went to the streets and were available for those having questions on Islam and Muslims in general.

At the end of the day the statistics showed how successful this initiative led by the regional and local youth organizations of IGMG has been. In just one day 61.000 conversations were hold in 102 locations in five different European countries.

Some micro happenings…

Usually the regional association taking part in this project distributed roses which is the symbol of the prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), but the regional association of Vienna in Austria endowed 250 kg of apples to visitors.
One student studying in Austria had a very nice conversation with an older couple. She complained about the lack of gentleness compared to Germany. In Germany she felt welcome by people surrounding her and was seen as a daughter but in Austria she unfortunately could not feel the same feelings. After the conversation, the elder couple said “Good Bye!” and were gone. After a few time they came back with coffee and cake to see her. Their statement was “now we know you and next time we see you we will welcome you as our daughter.

Another interesting happening is from Germany. An elder man came closer to a young man at the location and started to insult him by provoking with every kind of prejudice touching topics like terrorism, polygamy marriage etc. The elder man tried to challenge and deeply provoke the young man but failed after all in trying to see the young Muslim like a brutal one shown often in the media. His sentence later on was very strong: “I thought you do not mean it seriously by the things saying and representing your religion here. Now I know you are serious!”

All these stories and more than them happened on this street action day which shows how the society – Non-Muslims and Muslims – need to have a fair dialogue with each other. The invisible barriers between the citizens are bigger than expected and must be solve to reach at the end a society who comes closer to interact with each other and have a common sharing all day life.

For people interested in doing an action with IGMG or a similar one according to information of IGMG, the same action will be organized but in a more extended form the coming next year. NGO’s can join this action or organize a similar one by means of guideline IGMG prepared which in now available in German. For more information please ask directly IGMG via email – info@igmg.org

Women in Politics – Networking Event DAY 3

On the third day of our ‘Women in Politics’ networking event in Brussels, the group started off with an overview of some issues facing women in today’s Europe. Day three was a chance for us to visit a number of grassroots organisations involved in the empowerment of women and in the fight against discrimination.

We started with a field visit to ENAR (European Network Against Racism) where all participants had a chance to enhance their knowledge of the work of this umbrella European NGO and what it does on a daily basis alongside its member organisations. ENAR and its organisation’s fight against all forms of discrimination, including intersectional discrimination that women are facing. Their long-term perspective is to bring people and organisations together to reach self-mobilization.

Surveys from CCIF […] find that Islamophobia has a disproportionate impact on women, which they constitute 80% of the victims of Islamophobia are women. In 2014, ENAR launched a project known as “Forgotten Women ”. This project aims to study the impact of Islamophobia and hate speech faced by Muslim women in Europe.

This project reminds us that in France, many Muslim women wouldn’t even think of entering some professions as they know they will not be able to work with their headscarves on. This fact, despite being extremely common, is not measurable and thus cannot be counted as solid data to add to the reports on this. The “Forgotten Women” project is therefore crucial in allowing Muslim women to receive the same treatment as anyone else when it comes to EU equality laws.

After this eye-opening presentation, we headed to the Amazone centre, which houses 21 Dutch and French women’s organisations. They aim to assist and support organisations which are active in the field of gender equality. They provide information and documentation on the gender equality policies, and facilitate the exchange of good practices.

The Amazone centre also has an eco-friendly restaurant where our group had the pleasure of enjoying a delicious ‘slow-food meal’ where local produce was used. After lunch, a Dutch organisations, the Dutch Speaking Council for Women of Belgium presented their work in focusing on their “I will not be silent anymore” campaign. This campaign shed light on women who have been subjected to rape and who now have the strength to share their horrific stories. Indeed, many victims of rape feel guilty and scared to press charges, by offering a platform for these women to express themselves, the organisation is adding their a stepping stone towards fighting against rape and similiar crimes.

After this informative afternoon, we were then hosted by the Ambassador of Turkey who answered some of our many questions regarding Turkey and its contributions to gender equality. The ambassador recognised the importance of the work of such NGOs and their actions to tackle this issue while encouraging us all to continue to further and develop our work in this important area.

We hope that all the participants of the our three networking event in ‘Women in Politics’ were inspired by these organisations to build their own networks and build their own future in Turkey and Europe.

Women in Politics – Networking Event DAY 1

24th of February marked the beginning of our European Turkish Network for Promoting Women Participation in Politics. The project, a partnership between FEMYSO, KADEM (Women and Democracy Association Turkey) & COJEP (Council for Justice, Equality and Peace), started with a 4-day study visit and networking event in Brussels where 10 Turkish women’s NGOs came together with 10 EU women’s NGOs as part of a series of joint activities under the theme ‘Women in Politics and Lobbying’, to boost women’s participation in politics.

Only 20% of parliamentarians worldwide are women, according to the UN. Despite advances in women’s rights and participation in public life, equal gender representation in decision-making is far from being reality. This means all laws and decisions made by our parliaments are non gender-balanced and do not adequately reflect the needs of women and of society in general. It is clear that without serious positive action being taken to promote the equal participation of women in politics, equal representation will not be achieved for decades and perhaps centuries.

The study visit in Brussels aimed to share know-how and experience between European civil society organisations and Turkish civil society organisations on women’s political participation, policy making and advocacy. The study visit also involved visits to EU institutions, women’s rights organisations and regional women’s councils to learn about EU policy and processes and to discuss the important issues on the EU political agenda concerning women’s rights, participation and representation of women in political life.

The first day started with an overview of the joint project between FEMYSO, COJEP and KADEM taking place throughout 2015 with three phases, including this study visit and networking event, followed by a symposium in Istanbul, creation of a networking website, political training curriculum and booklet of best practices, and a final lobbying event taking place in Strasbourg.

During the morning we were also introduced to a historical view of ‘Women’s Participation in Democracy in Belgium’ by Kim Lecoyer, Chairperson for the EU Steering Committee of KARAMAH, the organisation for Muslim women lawyers for dignity. A quick glance at statistics concerning gender representation in national parliaments and political decision making roles shows that equality is still far off. Kim Lecoyer, noted that “Even in so-called developed regions, women participation in politics only reaches approximately 30%. The vast majority of countries in the world have less than 20% participation of women in Parliaments.”

Why is this important? Kim noted that, “The modern history of women in politics started with the struggle for the right to vote. The normal situation of a woman before the 20th century was to go from being under the legal control of a father and then a husband, and married women had no legal existence.” Kim also drew on examples from other rights struggles, and noted that black men actually got their rights to vote before women did – showing how women were at the bottom of the pyramid.

What is interesting is that we observe that women’s participation in politics increases after periods of conflict, and more specifically genocides. An example of this is Rwanda, the first country in the world in terms of women’s parliamentary representation – 64% of seats are held by women.

The United Nations has developed four Key Practices for ‘Women’s Effective Political Participation’:
– Make both local and national elections free and fair for women (including temporary special measures such as quotas)
– Support women’s civil society organisations to advance women’s interests
– Build accountability for women’s rights in public institutions
– Support women political leaders to expand their influence
Source: http://www.un.org/en/globalissues/democracy/women.shtml

The networking visit was a chance for the 20 organisations present to showcase their work and highlight the needs of the women they represented. Below are profiles of a few of the organisations:

KAYCAD, the Association for Solidarity for Women Executives & Employees based in Turkey, established in 2010 by seven women in Ankara. Aiming to develop women in both economic and social spheres, KAYCAD provides trainings in universities on topics such as leadership, communication and technology.

HAZAR is an NGO working on encouraging women to participate in social life and decision making through education. They have recently launched a great initiative known ‘Wo/Men for Women Project’ which aims to raise awareness of gender based violence, while bringing together decision makers to address this issue. They also provide support to victims of gender-based violence.

Other organisations included FEMMA which is an NGO based in Brussels working with migrant women whom have fewer opportunities and in particular single women.

The third part of the day was a ‘Speed networking workshop’ encouraging women to share their personal, professional and NGO experiences with each other. This was to aid in bridging the gap while finding commonalities to enhance the development of cooperation for future initiatives and projects between European and Turkish NGOs.

Finally, the day came to an end with a very informative field visit to ACTION CNE FEMMES, a project of the CSC Union of Belgium. The project aims to tackle the significant gender wage gap and employment issues relating to maternity and paternity leave throughout Europe. According to research there is a 24% pay gap in the private sector between men and women with the same job and same qualifications. Women are also more likely to be in part-time work, to work for fewer years and in less secure jobs, which makes them vulnerable when they retire on a much lower pension, particularly in the case of divorce. Action CNE Femmes is putting in place action plans and trainings to achieve equal women’s representation in private companies and trade unions, to ensure women’s equal role in decision-making in the work place.

The European Elections, the Far-Right Anti-Muslim Narrative and European Muslim Youth

Across Europe, far-right political parties have firmly set their sights on success in the forthcoming European parliamentary elections. Worryingly, some estimates suggest that the far-right may secure up to 36 seats in the European Parliament1. In light of the upcoming European parliamentary elections, and the concerning predictions of increasing far-right presence on the European
parliament, this article looks back to research published in September 2013 by the Forum of European Muslim Youth and Student Organisations (FEMYSO) into the effects of the European far- right’s anti-Muslim narrative on European Muslim youth2.

Typically recognised for their nationalist, Eurosceptic, xenophobic and homophobic positions throughout Europe, the far-right also increasingly promotes an openly anti-Muslim narrative. Within the report, analysis of far-right party policies demonstrated that generally the European far-right
anti-Muslim narrative is constructed around the notion of Muslims as a source of threat to the
European way of life. The imagined threat functions on several levels; these include demographic threat, economic threat, ideological threat, and physical threat. So for example, far-right parties in Europe posit that Muslim populations in Europe are growing, due to Muslim birth rates and immigration to Europe. Far-right parties argue that Muslim population growth is part of a Muslim takeover of Europe. In turn, the far-right believes that growth in Muslim population size facilitates the Muslim ideological takeover of Europe. Alternatively, based on their reading of Muslim women’s dress and European normative values surrounding gender equality, the far-right might argue that European Muslims constitute an ideological threat to European gender norms. Perhaps most disturbingly, the far-right anti-Muslim narrative is often the basis for the discrimination, marginalisation, and even physical and verbal abuse against some of Europe’s estimated 19 million
Muslims3 and their beliefs.

It is clear that the far-right anti-Muslim narrative is increasingly normalised and poses a threat to European social cohesion, however very little is known about how the far-right anti-Muslim narrative affects European Muslims. Therefore, the research set out to investigate the influence of the far-right anti-Muslim narrative on European Muslim youth; namely how the narrative affects young Muslims in Europe and how they respond to the anti-Muslim narrative. The research was based on six European cases; Belgium, Germany, France, the Netherlands, Sweden and the United Kingdom. Each of the six cases is home to numerous, diverse, and established Muslim communities. In spite of the varied nature of the far-right in each of the case studies, in each case the far-right have a shared anti-Muslim position. The research findings are based on a series of qualitative research interviews with Muslims aged between 18 and 29, from each of the six case studies.

As might be expected, in each of the countries studied the far-right anti-Muslim narrative provoked a strong and adverse emotional reaction among young European Muslims. Young Muslims surveyed reported that the far-right anti-Muslim narrative made them feel shocked, anxious and ostracised from society. However, instead of retreating and isolating themselves from society, the respondents described the way in which the far-right anti-Muslim narrative also motivated positive action by young European Muslims. Firstly, the young European Muslims interviewed expressed how creating a positive image of Muslims in the public sphere would challenge the increasingly normalised far-right anti-Muslim narrative. Interviewees felt that they could create a positive image of Islam through community engagement, and challenging Islamophobic media reporting.

Perhaps most importantly, in light of the forthcoming European elections, young European Muslims stress the importance of political participation as a means of combatting the far-right anti-Muslim narrative. The respondents discussed the importance of lobbying local politicians to voice their concerns, collaborating with wider anti-racism groups, being involved in political institutions, and most simply, voting. In the run up to the European elections, revisiting the research findings highlights both the pervasive effects of the far-right discourse, whilst also emphasising the importance of voting and political engagement by all members of society, as a means of challenging the Islamophobic xenophobic, homophobic and Eurosceptic positions proliferated by the far-right.

Amina Easat-Daas
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1. Simon Hix, Michael Marsh and Kevin Cunningham, ‘Poll Watch 2014: What the Polls Say’,
2014, ed. (2014). http://www.electio2014.eu/pollsandscenarios/polls Last Accessed 06.05.14
2. Amina Easat-Daas and Saida Ounissi, ‘European Muslim Youth and the Rise of the Far-Right
Anti-Muslim Narrative’, ed. (Brussels, Forum of European Muslim Youth and Student Organisation,
2013), pp. 54. Available at: https://www.femyso.org/media/articles/RP-26-09-13
3. Pew Forum, ‘Mapping the Global Muslim Population: A Report on the Size and Distrubution of the World’s Muslim Population’, 2012, ed. (2009). http://www.pewforum.org/2009/10/07/mapping-the-global-muslim-population/ Last Accessed
22.11.12

Why should you care about the European elections?

Why should you care about any elections in fact, when politicians these days seem so disconnected from people, when political parties seem to be more interested in fighting each other than fighting the real problems facing society?

When small special interest lobbies seem more able to set the agenda than millions of citizens put together?

Because the inaction of the many is what allows the few to succeed. Imagine if all of us knew our political representative and went to visit him or her once a month. Imagine if we followed what she or he says in Parliament in our name, held him or her to account for the way she or he votes. Imagine if just half of us were active in a political party and required our party to talk about the issues that concern us. If we each gave some of our money to a party, seeing it as an investment to prevent the buying of parties by billionaires and business tycoons.

There is no such thing as outsourcing your responsibilities as a citizen. If you had a company and wanted to employ someone to manage it, would you interview potential candidates, select them carefully and make sure they’re the right people to be entrusted with your business? Politicians are your employees. Elections are a process of choosing them and appointing them. Just as you would take care of interviewing and carefully selecting someone to manage your business, you should question and carefully select the individual who will be managing your public affairs and our public assets, who will be deciding the laws that determine what you can and cannot do, taking decisions affect your workplace, shaping rules affecting your public services – in short, taking decisions that enter into every corner of your life and shape your future and your children’s.

Is that worth taking a bit of time to reflect and act on?

Intissar Kherigi studied Law at King’s College, Cambridge, then specialised in human rights at the Centre for the Study of Human Rights, London School of Economics. She has worked in the House of Lords, the United Nations in New York, and the European parliament in Brussels. Intissar is a qualified lawyer, having completed her training in finance at international law firm, Clifford Chance LLP in their London and Dubai offices. She is also an active member of the European Muslim community and is President of the Forum of European Muslim Youth and Student Organisations, and is a member of the London Youth Hub of the World Economic Forum.

Open Day of Mosques in Germany

The 3rd of October has two important meanings for German society. One goes back to the 3rd of October of the year 1990, the reunification of Germany. Previously, Germany was split into Eastern and Western Germany due to political issues. 3rd October is well known as the national German Unity Day and is a legal holiday of the Federal Republic of Germany.

The other reason 3rd October is an important meaning is that it is the Open Day of Mosques all over Germany. The Open Day aims to create a platform for exchange between Muslims and non-Muslims. With this initiative Muslims want to prevent prejudice against their religion and want to convey an understanding of their religion in a better and more accurate way by opening their doors. The face to face communications show also that many participants receive a lot of information via the media which often report about Muslims without asking their opinions on different issues. The Open Day of Mosques is a way to create a direct interaction among people of different backgrounds, change perceptions and act against prejudice and Islamophobia which is increasing nowadays.

Because of the deep meaning of the unification of Germany on the 3rd of October the Muslim community in Germany decided to hold the official Open Day of Mosques on this important day. It symbolizes the togetherness within German society regardless of religion, ideology or color. This year about 1000 mosques participated in the Open Day, and thousands of people were expected to attend.

The Coordination Council of Muslims (KRM) has been organising the Open Day of Mosques since 2007. Every year there is a new slogan which sets the theme of the Open Day. This year the slogan was called “Umweltschutz – Moscheen setzen sich ein“ (Protection of the environment – mosques speak up). Lots of mosques prepared their own activities according to this motto, but there were also preparation teams which organised their own programs.

In the Villa Hahnenburg mosque in Cologne, for example, Johannes Remmel the Minister for the Environment of the North-Rhine Westphalia made a speech and claimed in view of the climate change an ecological community (Ökumene). He added that the Preservation of the creation was an important duty in Christianity and in Islam.

One other mosque had a brilliant and innovative idea. The project group of the mosque in Nippes (Cologne) prepared a performance for the deaf. It was the first time that an idea like this had been realised, so lots of deaf people came to the mosque to get information about Islam in a way they could understand. The audience was very happy. Feyza Ünal, the head of the group who came up with the idea and organised it in cooperation with the association Deaf Islam said that the feedback for this program was very positive and that she had received many emails concerning the registrations for the program also during one night before the program started. She added that the interested parties were curious to see the interior of the mosque for the first time and to attend a guided tour through the mosque. After the program a participant said that she was was very pleased about the friendly atmosphere of the mosque, and that she had found the presentations very interesting, as well as the prayers.

You can watch the video about the Open Day of Mosques in Cologne (Nippes) here:

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Kevser Erol

Spring Blog

“A relationship is not based on the length of time you spent together, it’s on the foundation you built”

This quote closed the last reminder during our final meeting of the two-year mandate in FEMYSO. When Hajar read this quote, her voice filled with emotion and sincerity, it sounded like the very precise feeling we were all experiencing at that moment. We were looking at each other with the impression that an era was drawing to a close. Around our meeting table in our cosy and homely office, we were sharing a unique moment of unity, brotherhood and heartfelt sympathy.

The current Executive Committee had been elected two years ago, but the team had actually been working together since 2009 when FEMYSO went through its rebirth. Our organization was, like most European NGO’s facing important structural and managerial challenges, which was weakening our impact and performance. The new elected committee at that time was lead by a president who profoundly believed in his team, even though it was young and not speaking the same language.

Unity and solidarity were the key to our success and the focus of our President’s leadership, who was like an older brother teaching the new members how to drive the organisation to higher standards . He would advise us, while making us feel confident and reassured that we could carry out the challenges ahead. Free from worries and our hope strengthened by our leader, it was easy to persevere along the way to success. It is this method of management that can help explain the regeneration of FEMYSO.

The main challenge for someone who is involved in a Muslim organisation, is to purify his or her intention and to always make sure that all actions are dedicated to Allah (SWT). We are so used to the “fi sabil’Illah” (‘for the sake of God’) discourse, but actually, there is nothing harder than to apply this significant verse: “Say: Verily, my prayers, my sacrifice, my life, and my death are for Allah, the Lord of All the Worlds.” (Qur’an 6:162).

This hard mission could not be fulfilled without the support of those who are embarked in the same struggle. The sum of interaction between colleagues isn’t a restful riviera, rather it is a tumultuous sky charged with clouds. The consolation is that you have the power to dissipate the cloud and to make the sun shine upon you. Patience, indulgence, to love without interest, to pardon easily and to provide an indefectible support are the ingredients of this magic recipe called brotherhood.

Therefore, the relationship between fellow colleagues must be based on this common objective. What motivates us is to make this purpose a reality and to feel the intense communion with Allah through this specific connection with our companions.

One of the deepest lessons for us is contained in one verse: “And We have not sent you except as a mercy to mankind” (Qur’an 21:107). We are part of Mankind and we are feeling this mercy at every single stage of our commitment in FEMYSO. When you feel that you have personally participated in the spread of mercy where you can, it makes you forget the endless meetings, the long travel, the interminable negotiations, all because your brothers and sisters support you.

Sometimes, when I look back at my first FEMYSO seminar, in March 2009 in Granada, Spain, I feel the enormity of Allah’s blessings. After four years, I can say FEMYSO has revolutionised my life at so many levels. I lived and I loved. I met incredible people who accompanied my intellectual and spiritual evolution. I learnt a new language and a new culture. I gained self-confidence and modesty at the same time. I was one person and I became another one, thanks to the focus on the ethos of solidarity and true companionship.